Dove ads real Men!? ?

I see these Dove ads of plus size women and they are running the commercial with the little girl under so much pressure from staring at all the "y" model ads. ---Have you ever wondered about some kind of double standard why are there no "real men" on the cover of romance novels(the "real women" have fantasies about the men in these novels) with some sub-title like "not every man has a six-pack" or "I like my man just the way they are." --Don't say that I'm missing the point and that these ads are to empower women and free them from the oppression to be thin. It's like women are enjoyed on a broader spectrum. For men if you don't have abs you suck if you don't make her laugh you suck if you can't provide for her you suck if you are not smart you suck and so on with no exceptions. Tell me what you think. Thanks.